Debt Problems

If a GIRL holds two fulltime jobs to solve her family debt problem,must she resist gettin in2 a relationship ?

We have gone out several times, and she always forgets the time. That is, she always seems to love me a lot. However, the last time that we met, she threw tantrum about lacking sleep when I reminded her that it was about 3am already. And that was about 4 weeks ago. Since then, she has been insisting that I always drag her time. Sigh... She's NOT married. She's NOT opened up her problems to me yet. We have NOT held hands.

Public Comments

1. Well, you need to be her support system if you want to continue this relationship not criticize her!
2. You have to just be REALLY nice to her. shes got to be under laods of stress.
3. Well, 2 full time jobs doesn't leave any time for much else, let alone sleep........I guess you just need to have the patience of a saint........hang in there
4. brother, ive been through this, she has very little time for anything at all accept her obligations and her determination right now. you will come after these needs and responsibilities are met. overall, you will be, for right now anyways, the least of her focus. understand this and support her in this, and then she might make a little of her time for you. but she will feel guilty sacrificing it right now because she will wonder if she could do more to get to the point that she is striving for. be understanding and patient. she will come around sooner or later.
5. Ok there is a lot here I'm not sure about...is this girl married or is she supporting her parents? Why is she working two full time jobs? If she is married, NO she should not be getting into a relationship. If she is taking care of other family, well that is something a man would have to be very considerate of. You would be the one to be sacrificed if she already has so many responsibilities, it may not be fair but it's true. If she is that important to you, maybe you could find ways to help her..help with things around her families home that might help save money. Do the grocery shopping, mow the lawn...little things that would mean a lot to someone who has the weight of the world on her shoulders. Even if she cares for you there will be sometimes she feels everyone and everything is trying to take more of her until she feels she has nothing left. I think she was probably not upset with you taking her time but transferring the aggression onto you because she has so much to do and so little time to herself. You would have to be a very considerate and understanding man to undertake this but if you are, you would be worth her keeping.
6. Understand her situation , she busting her back to make a better life for her family. Admire her and support her. Keep your dates shorter and more often, you'll both be happier.